Godly Parent
Helping you become the parent your kids deserve
Loud Fruit
“By their fruits ye shall know them.” Matthew 7:20 Woven throughout Scripture, there is a subtle yet motivational principle—fruits are extensions of roots (Luke 6:43-45). One of the greatest Biblical fruits referenced is children—the “fruit of the womb.” God says...
Silence Is Not Always Golden
We live in a world full of tough topics. And when it comes to our kids, silence is not always golden. If we fail to talk to our kids about the tough stuff, someone else certainly will. I can remember having “the talk” with each of our kids as preteens. However, more...
Why Parents Should Use the Election to Teach Their Kids to Vote
Right now, many Americans are deciding which candidate to vote for in this week's election. But, shouldn’t parents be intentional in using the election to teach their kids why and how to vote as well? I think so. Many are sitting on the edge of their seat, believing...
6 Small Daily Moments Parents Need to Prioritize
“Redeeming the time, because the days are evil." Eph. 5:16 Have you noticed?… that the days we’re living in are evil? Time is short… before our kids grow up into adults… before the impressionable years are gone… before Christ comes back again. I was reminded of this...
Behavior Strategy #4 — Discipline as Discipleship
No parent can avoid it. No child is without need of it. Discipline. But, believe it or not, discipline is a gift. Discipline provides parents with an unparalleled opportunity to tap into the innermost workings of their child’s heart. As a parent, you have: - An...
Behavior Strategy #3 – Calm Consistency, Clear Consequences
Training your children up right in the younger years will set you up for parenting success in the older years. When parents neglect their responsibilities in those first few years, it’s not impossible to succeed, but it is a lot harder. They’ll have to play...
Behavior Strategy #2 — The Required Response
As a child, our youngest son had a terrible habit of repeatedly failing to do what he was asked. And his excuse was always the same... "But, I didn't hear you," or " I forgot." On some level, all parents deal with kids not doing what they’re told. And most kids have a...
Behavior Strategy #1 – The Repeat Re-do
This month, I’ll be sharing multiple ways to quickly and effectively address common behavior issues with your kids through heart-based strategies that work. While my wife and I got plenty of things wrong when our kids were young, these were some of the things we got...
Transform Your Home With These Two Things
Want to transform your home? Here are two things every parent can get right this week. Is there anything in your home that you’d like to be different than it is? Any struggles you’re facing? Any challenges that seem insurmountable, whether relational, financial,...
How to Avoid Being the Adversary at Home
One of the ongoing struggles for nearly every parent is striking the balance between being a friend, a parent, and even sometimes an adversary to their children. We all have the same desire for our kids to like us, yet we all sometimes find ourselves playing the part...