Parenting with Grace over Grit

Parenting with Grace over Grit

“Grace Over Grit”…. that’s a thought that’s been on my mind recently in our home. Have you ever found yourself being harsher than necessary with your kids? I know I have.  Kids have a way of getting on your nerves sometimes, so our natural response can be filled...
God Had Other Plans

God Had Other Plans

Have you ever felt stretched just a little further than you thought you could handle? Last weekend, our family came home from a week out of town to a flooded basement. So, if you were wondering what we did with our weekend… it wasn’t what we planned.  Carpet...
School’s Out! Now What?

School’s Out! Now What?

School’s out recently. And just like that, summer is here. For a lot of families, that means schedules loosen up, the kids are home more, and there’s actually a window of time that doesn’t come around all year… unstructured, unhurried time with your...
For Better or Worse — 25 Lessons From 25 Years

For Better or Worse — 25 Lessons From 25 Years

My wife and I will celebrate 25 years of marriage tomorrow. God has been so good to us!  Marriage is a gift. Looking back in the rearview mirror, here are 25 random lessons from 25 remarkable years.  Learn to fight fair. Don’t get historical. “Fine” never...
The Power of One-on-One Time

The Power of One-on-One Time

“Dad, can we go on one last date together?” Those were the words my 22-year-old daughter said to me just before she got married last weekend. There’s something incredibly special about spending individual time with each of your children. Truly listening to their...
Our Obsession With the Forbidden

Our Obsession With the Forbidden

Have you ever felt the rush of doing something forbidden? Last week, I pulled the “do not remove” sticker off my home gym equipment, and it felt awkwardly good. Thankfully, I was the consumer and not the criminal, so all is well. Lol. (Though I’m...
Building a Habit of Prayer with Your Kids

Building a Habit of Prayer with Your Kids

Our toddlers love to pray. In fact, they’re so spiritual they even fight over who gets to pray first :). Though they may not fully understand yet, they’re learning the important spiritual discipline of talking to God. As parents, our prayers for and with our kids...
What If Less Really Is More?

What If Less Really Is More?

Here’s something that kind of turned my thinking upside down recently — the most effective growth in my life hasn’t come from adding more. It’s come from subtracting things. We’re wired to think that growth means doing more. Reading more books....
The Loudest Love Language Is Often Felt, Not Heard

The Loudest Love Language Is Often Felt, Not Heard

Touch is a language that speaks loudly, especially to the people you love most. Someone said it beautifully: “Touch is the first language we speak.” Long before a child ever learns to communicate with words, they already understand physical affection and...
How to Avoid Being the Adversary at Home

How to Avoid Being the Adversary at Home

One of the ongoing struggles for nearly every parent is striking the balance between being a friend, a parent, and even sometimes an adversary to their children. We all have the same desire for our kids to like us, yet we all sometimes find ourselves playing the part...