The world was shocked by the news over the weekend of Kobe Bryant and his daughters’ passing in their private helicopter, along with multiple other passengers. Kobe leaves behind a wife and children who need our prayers.
There are some simple reminders for us as parents (and believers) to take away from Kobe’s death:
Our days are numbered
While we know it’s true, we’re still always humbled by the reminder that death is no respecter of persons. Every day is a gift. Just as God has numbered the hairs on our head, he has numbered the very days of our lives as well. (Job 14:1-5)
Often we are reminded of just how close we are to death every day. Just this past weekend, as our son and daughter were driving home they looked ahead to see a drunk driver on the wrong side of the road coming at them in oncoming traffic. Thankfully they avoided him and were safe, but they were shook. Our days are limited, and only the Lord knows their number.
Live a life that outlasts you
As soon as the news of Kobe’s passing was out, crowds of people were commemorating him in person and on social media. My own boys were driven to tears at the hearing of his passing. Kobe was known for much more than just basketball. He was known as a loving husband and father. In fact, he was known for being most proud of his children, even more than his public accomplishments. He will be remembered for far more than just how he entertained us on the court. If you’re going to be remembered for just one thing, make sure it’s something more important than just your work.
What we teach our children matters
Kobe’s daughter, Gianna, who died with him in the crash was an amazing athlete herself thanks to her father. She was an aspiring basketball player with a bright future. While there is much respect for Kobe’s intentional investment into his children, I hope and pray that he invested into them spiritually as well. I hope that Kobe knew the Lord and led his children to know Him as well. Parents, remember, no skill or talent will matter beyond the grave. Only what we and our children do with Jesus will ultimately matter. Intentionally lead your children to Jesus.
As you reflect on the events of the past weekend, remember to hug your family a little tighter, because each of our days are numbered. Sit down this week with your kids and talk about these things. And remember to live a life that outlasts you by investing into them things that will last for eternity.
And please take a moment to pray for Kobe’s wife and family today. R.I.P. Kobe.
