3 Reasons It’s Time to Have a Family Meeting

3 Reasons It’s Time to Have a Family Meeting

If you want to have a long lasting and smooth running vehicle, every few months you need to take the time to get your oil changed.  In addition, every now and then, you may even need to get get an alignment or other routine maintenance done. Why do we do those things?...
12 Questions I Ask My Kids Every Year

12 Questions I Ask My Kids Every Year

My wife and I recently sat down with each of our children and asked them to finish this sentence…  “You feel most loved by me when _________________________.” Here were their responses (in their own words):  I feel most loved by you when… You...
8 Reasons Your Kids are Misbehaving

8 Reasons Your Kids are Misbehaving

Every parent deals with bad behavior from their kids from time to time. I can remember a time in particular when one of our boys seemed to be repeatedly pushing his siblings and hitting them with whatever he happened to have in his hand at the moment.  What we came to...
My Wife Corrected Me… And She Was Right

My Wife Corrected Me… And She Was Right

Since the day we were married, my wife and I have had an “open heart” policy – a mutual understanding that we are each allowed to speak honestly and openly into the heart and life of the other when we have a concern or an issue. Sometimes it may be some sort of...
More Control Now, Less Control Later

More Control Now, Less Control Later

God has blessed us with four children:  Spencer (13) Faith (12) Seth (8), and Shane (6). Naturally with raising four kids comes plenty of discipline, but the nice thing about discipline is that, if you do it right, it tapers off with age.  The child in our home who...