What To Do When Your Teen Makes You Proud

What To Do When Your Teen Makes You Proud

3 John 4 “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.”  What should a parent do when their kids make them proud?… We currently have three teenagers (yes, please pray for us!). Recently, each of them made some significant spiritual...
How to Lead When There is Mother Daughter Drama

How to Lead When There is Mother Daughter Drama

As a husband and father, one of the tricky parts of leading in your home with teenagers is when two women that you love are at odds – your wife and your daughter. And before you know it, you are found right in the middle of it all. So how does a husband and...
Why EVERY Parent Should Be a Hugger

Why EVERY Parent Should Be a Hugger

I’m not ashamed to say it, that we are a “hugging family”. We hug each other a lot. And it’s intentional. There are a number of different kinds of hugs that we give for different reasons, but here are a few in our regular repertoire: personal hugs family...
3 Reasons Parenting Is Not for the Faint at Heart

3 Reasons Parenting Is Not for the Faint at Heart

Like most newlywed couples, I can remember how excited my wife and I were to have children. 3…4… maybe 10? We planned to wait a couple of years before getting started on our new little family, however, our colicky firstborn son didn’t think that was...
Parent, friend, or both… and does it really matter?

Parent, friend, or both… and does it really matter?

Have you ever struggled with knowing when to be a parent and when to be a friend with your children? Which is more important, and is it okay to be both? Yesterday at our church, my wife and I and our pastor and pastor’s wife sat down to discuss the four seasons...
5 Reasons to Teach Your Kids to Forgive

5 Reasons to Teach Your Kids to Forgive

The front door swung open and the first words I heard were these, “She hates me, and I don’t know why.” One of our kids had been hurt by a friend at school, and an important conversation followed.  It’s inevitable, your kids are going to get hurt by...
Parents, You Can Do This!

Parents, You Can Do This!

On many occasions, I’ve talked to parents who feel totally inadequate for the task of raising their children. Parenting seems overwhelming, and as the responsibilities pile up, so does the frustration and feelings of inadequacy.  Have you ever been there yourself?...