What To Do When Your Child Makes Unending Excuses

What To Do When Your Child Makes Unending Excuses

Our 8 year old recently got into a bad habit of having multiple excuses for why he shouldn’t have to do what he’s told when he’s told.  For example, a few weeks ago as it was time to get ready for bed, I told him very clearly to go brush his teeth. But 10 minutes...
How to Incorporate Your Faith into Your Family

How to Incorporate Your Faith into Your Family

What is your #1 desire for your children?  That they are healthy… that they succeed in sports, education, life… that they are well-liked… that they have a smooth life with few problems?   While none of those things are wrong, I know that for us personally (and maybe...
3 Ways to Win the Heart of Your Spouse

3 Ways to Win the Heart of Your Spouse

Thriving families are usually the product of thriving couples. And as weird as it may sound, one of the best ways for you to bless your children is to focus on improving your relationship with your spouse. Because the closer you grow as a couple, the more your...
Will Your Great-Grandchildren Know You?

Will Your Great-Grandchildren Know You?

Imagine with me for just a moment, it’s Christmas day, and the presents are all neatly wrapped under the tree. When it comes to your turn to receive a gift, you are handed a small, book-shaped box that feels about as light as a feather.  You’re pretty sure that...
Teaching Our Children How to Respond to Tragedy

Teaching Our Children How to Respond to Tragedy

A 24-year-old Indiana girl’s life is changed forever in the blink of an eye as she looks up from texting and driving at 80mph to see 4 children, 3 of them siblings, crossing her path on a highway, as she unknowingly blows through a school bus stop sign.  She instantly...
3 Principles for Raising Confident Kids

3 Principles for Raising Confident Kids

In a conference I attended recently, I heard this startling statistic about confidence from Dr. Keith Johnson – “From the time a child is 1-4 years old, their confidence is being cemented into place.  And this confidence is developed during these years by the...
Letting Go and Letting God

Letting Go and Letting God

3 John 1:4  I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth. Ever since he was young, our oldest son, Spencer has had a strong desire to play professional football for the Green Bay Packers.  And as he’s gotten older, that desire has only...
PG: Parental Guidance REQUIRED

PG: Parental Guidance REQUIRED

Over the past 4 weeks at our home church, my pastor, Josh Beutow, and I, have preached through a series of messages on parenting called PG: Parental Guidance Required.   Here are some of the thought-provoking quotes from this series that I think will challenge you:...
Why Mom & Dad HAVE TO Get On the Same Page

Why Mom & Dad HAVE TO Get On the Same Page

Throughout many years of observing parents, one thing I have seen that has the potential to divide families, foster unhealthy favoritism, and wreak havoc on the well-being of children is this – parents who aren’t on the same page.   It’s like a coach and...
Learning to Let Them Go

Learning to Let Them Go

Last week, I watched as my 16 year-old son drove out of our driveway for the very first time completely by himself. It was kind of a surreal moment, as it hit me again that our children grow up so fast, and I was reminded of how this would only be one of many...